Presents

One of the worst things about receiving a wedding invitation is to discover that there isn’t anything indicating where the couple has registered. It is even worse when you do some research and a friend or relative says that they have decided not to register.

Now, you’re faced with the task of shopping for wedding presents. You may not have a clue as to what the couple already has or what they would need as a gift.

We received so many gift certificates as wedding presents that we could eat at different restaurants throughout the year. I always recommend getting a gift certificate for a restaurant. Give the couple an evening out and a night free from cooking and washing dishes.

Perhaps you are all too happy to end up getting a gift certificate for the couple. Speaking from personal experience, getting gift cards and certificates as wedding presents is actually rather pleasant. My husband and I are so intent on saving money and paying off our debts that we rarely enjoy an evening out of the house.

Gift certificates to a particular store or a mall are always welcome but often times the guests hesitate to go with that gift idea because it doesn’t seem personal. That is true, giving money or gift certificates isn’t always as personal as a gift. However, giving a gift that will go unused or become a duplicate certainly isn’t ideal either.

If you simply don’t know what might make an ideal gift, you can get gift certificates for things other than shopping or a restaurant. If you know that the couple enjoys theater, perhaps you can get them tickets to an upcoming show or event.

Other people like to take the more traditional approach to wedding presents. They’ll buy unique candles or picture frames, perhaps something personalized for the couple. Those traditional items are always appreciated as well but they might be given in an overabundance. In my household, I can’t ever have enough of candles or picture frames but personalized items are a bit strange to me.

A certificate for an overnight stay at a romantic bed and breakfast would make for some wonderful wedding presents. If there is a spa nearby, see if you can purchase a package for couples to be pampered together. There are lots of places that will eagerly give a gift certificate if you have the creativity to look around you and be resourceful.

What about a class for cooking or dance ?

Perhaps there’s some sort of class that they would enjoy taking together but never bothered to look into taking. Shopping for wedding presents can be a challenge. You just may end up finding the perfect gift that will be appreciated for years to come. Of course, you need to put a bit of thought and research into finding that gift.